“And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back, because her passion burned brighter than her fears”
In a world where the definition of success and value is ever-evolving, the concept of, ‘High Value Woman’ stands as a testament to individuality, empowerment and self-worth. High value women are those who have recognised their intrinsic worth and are unapologetic about embracing their unique qualities and strengths.
A high value woman is not defined by her external attributes, material possessions or relationship status. Instead she is characterized by her inner qualities, self-awareness and the positive impact she has on her life and the life of those around her.
She is someone that all people admire and respect. She is kind, respectful, courteous and loving to everyone, including herself. She has very high standards. She won’t let just anyone into her life and those who don’t have a similar mindset to her will not remain in her circle.
She wants people to be the best version of themselves that they can. A high value woman knows her worth, is grounded in credibility, has a personal growth thought process, invests in herself and surrounds herself with people who value who she truly is. It is because a high value woman recognizes the connectedness of living beings, she is present in the moment with all and treats those around her with a gentle loving kindness. She will treat animals with care, show empathy to others who are struggling and all her relationships will be based on a healthy respect for others.
Authenticity is a key characteristic of a high value woman. She is conscious of who she is, where she has come from and where she wants to go. She is focused on her goal because she understands the importance of positively impacting her generation in different ways. A high value woman is not afraid to stand up for what she believes in, irrespective of other people’s opinion. She embraces her authentic self and is not afraid to be vulnerable and real. Authenticity is a cornerstone of her interaction with others.
Self-confidence goes hand in hand with self-love and a high value woman practices self-love and self-care all the time. She has a high self-esteem and believes in herself and will not allow anyone to treat her with a lack of respect. Such women have usually spent a long time working to be the best version of themselves through personal development and they understand that taking care of their physical and emotional well-being is essential to their overall happiness and success.
“She who sets her own standards high, will never have to settle for less because to be enough for someone in a world of greed is everything”
Independence and self-reliance are attributes of high value women. She doesn’t rely on others to define her happiness or validate her worth. She will be aware of how her thoughts, words and behaviours affect others and in a relationship, she needs to be able to feel that she can trust her man and that she is able to entrust herself with him.
Nothing is more endearing to a high value woman than a man with a deeper sense of purpose. She is attracted to a man who she can have engaging conversations with, someone who is not only interesting, but has interest in learning about the world around him by asking open-ended questions. She needs safety and security in a relationship, a comfortable place where she can be open about her feelings and she needs a man who is mature enough to be vulnerable and honest enough to share how he feels. She won’t tolerate being treated with disrespect or as someone who is unimportant in her man’s life and will always expect in return, everything that she is willing to give, otherwise if she feels she is not loved she is willing to just walk away.
A high value woman will give everything to her man, recognising the different emotional, sexual, intellectual and spiritual needs that each have and she will do her utmost to keep her man happy at all times and in return will expect emotional security, fidelity, tenderness and understanding that good communication in the relationship is the key to mutual happiness.
Resilience, which comes under the umbrella of emotional intelligence, is another key trait. High value women understand that setbacks are a part of life, but they bounce back stronger, using challenges as an opportunity for growth.
Compassion is one of the most potent weapons that high value women have. She does not look down on anyone because she knows what it would be like if she were in their shoes. She possesses a strong sense of empathy, treats others with kindness and respect and actively listens and supports the people who are important in her life, using kindness and encouragement as a way to help people make the necessary changes in their lives.
High value women are ambitious and driven. They set very high standards for themselves and work diligently to achieve their goals. They are dedicated to continuously learning more and never rest on their accomplishments. A high value woman understands that ignorance is detrimental to advancement, therefore she keeps upgrading herself in all aspects of her life.
High value women are skilled at setting and maintaining healthy boundaries in their personal and professional lives. She is not afraid to speak her mind and will willingly express her thoughts and emotions vocally. She is not malicious and will be aware that if expressing something could offend others, she will be diplomatic in voicing her opinions.
She knows she is flawed and has learnt how to accept her flaws and make up for them. She does not create a façade to hide from her vulnerabilities, instead she allows people to know that she too has weaknesses and that she is continuously working on them. She has no problems being open-minded and is not fixated on her own opinions, preferring instead to listen to what others have to say.
High value women know that their worth as a woman also involves not giving up. She recognizes that giving up is not an option, especially when living her dreams or reaching for her goals. Hence when she stumbles on her journey in life, she will rise again, strengthened and determined to do better next time. She values her peace of mind and walks away from anything that would cost her that peace, preferring always to spread positivity and teaching others not to resort to behaviours that would sell themselves short.
High value women are not limited to a specific age, background or profession. They are a diverse group of individuals who share common traits that transcend societal expectations. Their journey towards recognizing and embracing their own worth is an ongoing one, marked always by personal growth, empowerment and a profound impact on the world around them. Being a high value woman means understanding that true value comes from within and it is important to use that value to create a better world for themselves and others.
“High value women don’t waste their precious time trying to explain to men how they should be treated”